The Leather & Lace Night Out
Mar
21
to Mar 22

The Leather & Lace Night Out

Rough Edges. Soft Touches. No Regrets.

Step out of the mundane and into a world where edges are blurred and inhibitions are left at the door. Penny’s Wildride invites you to explore the intoxicating friction between the rough and the refined. Feel the cool, unapologetic grip of leather against the delicate, whispered touch of lace. This isn't just a party; it’s a sensory takeover. Whether you come to be seen or to disappear into the shadows, the night is yours to command. Will you join the ride, or wonder what you missed?

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The Red Room at the Barn | a bdsm experience
Mar
27
to Mar 28

The Red Room at the Barn | a bdsm experience

Where Your Darkest Desires Find a Home

There is a world that exists only after hours, away from the judgmental eyes of the everyday. At The Red Room at The Barn, we don’t just host events; we curate experiences that linger on your skin long after the night ends.

Step inside a sanctuary designed for the bold. Surrounded by like-minded souls and the intoxicating scent of leather and luxury, you’ll find the freedom to explore every "what if" you’ve ever whispered to yourself. This isn't just a party—it’s an invitation to surrender to the exquisite tension of the night. Will you stay in the shadows, or will you step into the light of the Red Room?

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The Hotwife Night Out | hosted by the FNO Regulators
Mar
28
to Mar 29

The Hotwife Night Out | hosted by the FNO Regulators

Saddle Up for a Night of Lawless Temptation

There’s a certain thrill in breaking the rules, and the FNO Regulators are here to ensure those rules stay broken. This isn't your typical night out—it's a frontier of desire where the dust never settles and the heat only rises.

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Crimson Desires | a queer event
Mar
29

Crimson Desires | a queer event

Crimson Desires hosts queer-friendly play parties. From intricate shibari rope suspension to a curated selection of impact implements, they thoughtfully cater to the kink-curious and experienced members of the Lifestyle. This event is a sober space: no alcohol or substances will be present, and attendees are asked not to arrive under the influence.

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BoysTown West | the place for bi men and women
Apr
3
to Apr 4

BoysTown West | the place for bi men and women

Escape the ordinary and step into a world designed for your desires. We are thrilled to present BoysTown West—a curated, intimate sanctuary where bi and bi-curious men and women truly belong. This isn't just a party; it’s one of eight exclusive Friday nights dedicated to the beauty of fluid attraction.

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Mela's Sexy Latin Party
Apr
4
to Apr 5

Mela's Sexy Latin Party

Body to Body, Beat for Beat

Forget the world outside. Step into a sanctuary of electric energy and unbridled heat. From the intimate sway of Bachata to the provocative fire of Reggaeton, the Sexy Latin Party is a masterclass in desire. It’s more than a rhythm—it’s a physical language spoken in the shadows and felt in every heartbeat. Come get swept up in the sweat and the soul of the night. You belong exactly where the heat is highest.

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The K Willard Interracial Lifestyle Party
Apr
11
to Apr 12

The K Willard Interracial Lifestyle Party

Celebrate Diversity

Looking to break free from the routine and experience a night of genuine connection? The K. Willard Interracial Lifestyle Party is designed for those who value chemistry, diversity, and an elevated social atmosphere.

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The K Willard Interracial Lifestyle Party
Mar
14
to Mar 15

The K Willard Interracial Lifestyle Party

Celebrate Diversity

Looking to break free from the routine and experience a night of genuine connection? The K. Willard Interracial Lifestyle Party is designed for those who value chemistry, diversity, and an elevated social atmosphere.

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St. Patrick's Night Out
Mar
13
to Mar 14

St. Patrick's Night Out

A Night of Emerald Envy

Leave the "kiss me I'm Irish" shirts at home. This night is about the bold, the beautiful, and the bright. Come get lost in the emerald glow and see what happens when the lights go low and the neon comes out to play.

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Mela's Sexy Latin Party
Mar
7
to Mar 8

Mela's Sexy Latin Party

Body to Body, Beat for Beat

Forget the world outside. Step into a sanctuary of electric energy and unbridled heat. From the intimate sway of Bachata to the provocative fire of Reggaeton, the Sexy Latin Party is a masterclass in desire. It’s more than a rhythm—it’s a physical language spoken in the shadows and felt in every heartbeat. Come get swept up in the sweat and the soul of the night. You belong exactly where the heat is highest.

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The Red Room at the Barn
Feb
27
to Feb 28

The Red Room at the Barn

This Event is Canceled
due to low confirmed attendance.

We turn The Barn into a Dungeon Whether you are brand spanking new like us (see what we did there) or BDSM veterans, this is the night for you.

Dungeon Masters Needed

If you are a Dungeon Master and would like to provide instruction at this event. We welcome you. Send an email to admin@friendsnightout.com. Your entry will be free.

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Penny’s WildRide | The Ultimate Play Party
Feb
21
to Feb 22

Penny’s WildRide | The Ultimate Play Party

This Event is Canceled.

Last weekend was one of the biggest parties in the area for many in the LS. When Play Champagne is in town, they throw an amazing party. We’ve heard some sexy stories from friends.

Right now we have a small party for Saturday night and I don’t want to cancel it. So I am offering a PAY WHAT YOU CAN PARTY.

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The K Willard Interracial Lifestyle Party
Feb
14
to Feb 15

The K Willard Interracial Lifestyle Party

The One They Whisper About

Mr. K. Willard has been hosting some of the most amazing parties in the area. Imagine that he takes all the races and ethnicities, merges them together and pours his masterpiece out into an mass of colorful flesh, undulating to the sexual beat of desire. This play party starts almost immediately. His guest come ready to get naughty. We have witnessed clothes disappearing within 30 minutes of the doors opening.

FNO is proud to sponsor this unique experience at The Barn in Aurora. They throw amazing and extremely sexy parties on the 2nd Saturday of the month. FNO is authorized to offer our members limited access to this private event. Get your ticket to ride here.

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LS Latinos Present | The Sexy Latin Party
Feb
7
to Feb 8

LS Latinos Present | The Sexy Latin Party

¡La FIESTA Latina ORIGINAL ha vuelto! Daban eventos en Couples Choice (CC's) hasta que fue clausurado. El TSIN BARN se enorgullece de recibir a Mela y a sus sensuales amigos.Nuestro espacio es LEGAL y divertido.Toca para confirmar asistencia.

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The ORIGINAL Latin Party is back! They were holding events at Couples Choice (CC’s) until it was shut down. The TSIN BARN is proud to welcome Mela and her sexy friends. Our space is LEGAL and fun. Tap to RSVP.

This is not a Friends Night Out event. Once you register, you will be taken to their page for final payment instructions.

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BoysTown West | the place for bi men and women
Feb
6
to Feb 7

BoysTown West | the place for bi men and women

We are delighted to sponsor BoysTown West — an intimate haven for bi men and women. This year we’ve set aside eight irresistible Fridays to celebrate bi and bi-curious men and women. Your enchantress for the evening is the incomparable Miss Lisa — warm, attentive, utterly magnetic. Want to talk? She listens with a low, knowing smile. Need a reassuring embrace? Rest your head against her and feel safe, desired, and wholly seen.

The night belongs to you: soft lighting, close conversation, lingering touches, and the freedom to explore your wants without judgment. Men present are assumed to be at least bi-curious; gay men, women, bi women, and our trans friends are welcomed with open arms. The Barn offers a discreet, secure, and beautifully private setting to indulge on your own terms.

Come, surrender to the moment. Aurora and Miss Lisa await — ready to guide, comfort, and ignite. Spread the word; the evening is calling.

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The Sweaters, Panties and Boots Night Out
Jan
31
to Feb 1

The Sweaters, Panties and Boots Night Out

A Special Night

January gives us an extra weekend and we simply must make it a little more deliciously sexy! There is nothing more alluring than a woman in a cozy sweater, delicate panties and tall boots. So raid your closet, pick out something that tempts us, and come to The Barn to shed your inhibitions and enjoy the evening.

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The Hotwife Night Out
Jan
24
to Jan 25

The Hotwife Night Out

Get ready for a night built exclusively for bold women and the adventurous partners who adore them. Join us for The Hotwife Party, a seductive, no-holds-barred event hosted by the FNO Regulators and K. Willard’s Interracial Lifestyle — a select group dedicated to fulfilling the desires and fantasies of hotwives in the lifestyle.

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The Red Room at the Barn
Jan
23
to Jan 24

The Red Room at the Barn

We turn The Barn into a Dungeon Whether you are brand spanking new like us (see what we did there) or BDSM veterans, this is the night for you.

Dungeon Masters Needed

If you are a Dungeon Master and would like to provide instruction at this event. We welcome you. Send an email to admin@friendsnightout.com. Your entry will be free.

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Penny’s WildRide | The Ultimate Play Party
Jan
17
to Jan 18

Penny’s WildRide | The Ultimate Play Party

CANCELED

For years, she been the one behind the scenes; curating the magic while everyone else indulged.

Now? She has assembled the perfect team… and it’s finally her turn to play.

The night begins with connection —icebreakers, darts, listening or dancing to seductive music — and then the energy rises.

Oh and she has a dedicated Sybian room for the ladies to help get you in the mood. This isn’t just a party.

This is Penny’s WildRide.
Let the WildRumpus start!

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The K Willard Interracial Lifestyle Party
Jan
10
to Jan 11

The K Willard Interracial Lifestyle Party

The One They Whisper About

Mr. K. Willard has been hosting some of the most amazing parties in the area. Imagine that he takes all the races and ethnicities, merges them together and pours his masterpiece out into an mass of colorful flesh, undulating to the sexual beat of desire. This play party starts almost immediately. His guest come ready to get naughty. We have witnessed clothes disappearing within 30 minutes of the doors opening.

FNO is proud to sponsor this unique experience at The Barn in Aurora. They throw amazing and extremely sexy parties on the 2nd Saturday of the month. FNO is authorized to offer our members limited access to this private event. Get your ticket to ride here.

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The FNO Meet & Greet | Black Skirt, White Top  and Fishnets
Jan
9
to Jan 10

The FNO Meet & Greet | Black Skirt, White Top and Fishnets

Let’s start off the new year by reintroducing ourselves to each other. Let’s dance. Let’s mingle. And if the mood strikes you, let’s go upstairs.

What you should know

  • The event is open to all.

  • Single men must have an escort to go upstairs.

  • The theme is a suggestion, you are not required to dress in the theme. If you are not, please dress to impress.

  • The WildRumpus Room will be open for this event.

  • The Sybian and FCG 3000 will be available for this event.

  • Doors open at 9pm and lock at 11:30 pm. Event ends at 2am.

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The Thrillseekerz Party
Dec
20
to Dec 21

The Thrillseekerz Party

On the 3rd Saturday of the month, The Thrillseekers featuring Violet Black hosts an amazing EDM event at the TSIN Barn. Come experience a night you won’t soon forget.

This is not a Friends Night Out event. Once you register, you will be taken to their page for final payment instructions.

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Club Sparkles Naughty Christmas Glow Party
Dec
19
to Dec 20

Club Sparkles Naughty Christmas Glow Party

SOLD OUT

LET’S GLOW

It’s Missy’s Naughty Christmas Glow party and she has a special guest; the ever popular and infinitely adorable FNO Angel Tina. This is the one you don’t want to miss.

On the 3rd Friday of the month FNO’s Club Sparkles throws one of the sexiest GLOW parties around. Come shake and move to the hottest EDM, Reggaeton and Dance music by our resident DJ. Meet like-minded sexy couples and single ladies who want to explore the swinger lifestyle. Play or watch in our WildRumpus Playroom. For this event it will be set up in blacklight. Think glow sex!

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The Member Appreciation Party
Dec
12
to Dec 13

The Member Appreciation Party

Celebrate the season with a night of elegance, allure, and connection at Friends Night Out’s Sexy Holiday Party. Step into an atmosphere where sophistication meets sensuality—a place designed for free and open individuals to explore the art of flirtation and deepen their connections.

Dress to impress, ignite your confidence, and let the spirit of the holidays inspire playful, meaningful exchanges. And this year, your festive generosity makes an impact beyond the party. Courtesy of our CareRumpus division, $10 of every donation goes directly to charity, supporting causes that bring warmth and hope to those in need.

Join us for a night where passion and purpose meet—because the best celebrations leave you feeling beautifully alive inside and out.

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LS Latinos Present | The Sexy Latin Party
Dec
6
to Dec 7

LS Latinos Present | The Sexy Latin Party

¡La FIESTA Latina ORIGINAL ha vuelto! Daban eventos en Couples Choice (CC's) hasta que fue clausurado. El TSIN BARN se enorgullece de recibir a Mela y a sus sensuales amigos.Nuestro espacio es LEGAL y divertido.Toca para confirmar asistencia.

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The ORIGINAL Latin Party is back! They were holding events at Couples Choice (CC’s) until it was shut down. The TSIN BARN is proud to welcome Mela and her sexy friends. Our space is LEGAL and fun. Tap to RSVP.

This is not a Friends Night Out event. Once you register, you will be taken to their page for final payment instructions.

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The Untamed Winter Heat Party
Dec
5
to Dec 6

The Untamed Winter Heat Party

Baby, it’s way too cold outside… so let’s turn up the heat 🔥❄️

This December, Heather Untamed invites you to WINTER HEAT — a night made for seduction, slow jams, and skin-on-skin warmth.

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The Fifty Shades of Black Friday Party
Nov
28
to Nov 29

The Fifty Shades of Black Friday Party

Step into a world of intrigue and desire at our Fifty Shades of Black party—an evening that promises elegance wrapped in mystery and sensual sophistication. Embrace the allure of silk, leather, and whispered secrets as we explore the boundaries of passion and pleasure. Dress to impress in black and let the night ignite your deepest fantasies within a welcoming and respectful community. Indulgence awaits those ready to experience an intoxicating blend of sophistication and sensuality.

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Thrillseekerz | 80’s Night
Nov
22
to Nov 23

Thrillseekerz | 80’s Night

Big hair, tight fits, and electric vibes all night long. Think Miami Vice meets wild desire.

Dress sexy. Dance dirty. Live the 80s.

This is not a Friends Night Out event. Once you register, you will be taken to their page for final payment instructions.

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Club Sparkles Glow Party
Nov
21
to Nov 22

Club Sparkles Glow Party

LET’S GLOW

On the 3rd Friday of the month FNO’s Club Sparkles throws one of the sexiest GLOW parties around. Come shake and move to the hottest EDM, Reggaeton and Dance music by our resident DJ. Meet like-minded sexy couples and single ladies who want to explore the swinger lifestyle. Play or watch in our WildRumpus Playroom. For this event it will be set up in blacklight. Think glow sex!

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The K Willard Interracial Lifestyle Party
Nov
15
to Nov 16

The K Willard Interracial Lifestyle Party

The One They Whisper About

TSIN and FNO welcome the Interracial Lifestyle group to The Barn. They throw amazing and extremely sexy parties on the 2nd Saturday of the month. FNO is authorized to offer our members access to this private event.

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The Friday Night Karaoke Party
Nov
14
to Nov 15

The Friday Night Karaoke Party

EPIC KARAOKE PARTY

Grab the mic and get ready to sing your heart out! Join us for a night of unforgettable karaoke, great company, and non-stop fun. The stage is set, the songs are ready, and all that's missing is you! Plus a special prize if you can sing an entire song while riding our SYBIAN!

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LS Latinos Present | The Sexy Latin Party
Nov
8
to Nov 9

LS Latinos Present | The Sexy Latin Party

¡La FIESTA Latina ORIGINAL ha vuelto! Daban eventos en Couples Choice (CC's) hasta que fue clausurado. El TSIN BARN se enorgullece de recibir a Mela y a sus sensuales amigos.Nuestro espacio es LEGAL y divertido.Toca para confirmar asistencia.

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The ORIGINAL Latin Party is back! They were holding events at Couples Choice (CC’s) until it was shut down. The TSIN BARN is proud to welcome Mela and her sexy friends. Our space is LEGAL and fun. Tap to RSVP.

This is not a Friends Night Out event. Once you register, you will be taken to their page for final payment instructions.

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The Untamed Masquerade Party
Nov
7
to Nov 8

The Untamed Masquerade Party

This is an evening of mystery and allure, where whispered conversations and hidden glances create an atmosphere of delightful anticipation. Join a select few for a clandestine gathering at the TSIN Barn where the magic of the unknown is the ultimate indulgence.

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The Untamed and Sparkle Halloween Party
Oct
31
to Nov 1

The Untamed and Sparkle Halloween Party

IT’S HALLOWEEN
AKA SWINGERS NEW YEARS

The witching hour is drawing near, and the veil is growing thin. Join us for a Halloween affair where secrets are whispered in the shadows and your costume is your second skin. Indulge with FNO’s Heather Untamed and Missy Sparkles. This one could sell out so get your discounted ticket early. Prices go up the week of the party.

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